So many people waste time looking for the perfect lover. Are you one of them? Do you jump from person to person because something is wrong with every single person that you meet? I know that we all have the friend who would dump people for reasons like toes, speaking voices and stretch marks. Where have you been shallow in the past? Where have you let someone go for a reason that made your friends roll their eyes and sigh loudly?
I read the following quote today:
We waste time looking for the perfect lover, instead of creating the perfect love. – Tim Robbins
What does perfect love look like to you? What does your perfect relationship look like? How are you making your partner’s life better? What are you bringing to the table in it? Can you see what your dream date looks like in your head? Do not waste time looking for the perfect lover any more. Spend time creating what the perfect love looks like in your head and feels like in your core. Stop focusing on the person and start focusing on the bigger picture of this thing called LOVE.
By focusing on a person, or a certain type, we are really tying up the Universe’s hands so to speak. By focusing on the perfect relationship and love situation in our life, we allow the Universe to have more room to work. If you want a love that will last, please do not waste time looking for the “right person” any more. Focus on the type of relationship you want. The Universe will bring you the person who is capable of being in that type of relationship with you.